Rumors And The Fake Family Pheasant Hunt

A FEW THINGS--MINI ADDITION:

I wasn't going to post anything but after this morning I felt I should clear a few things up...or start more rumors depending on who reads this.
This morning I was at the convenience store getting a breakfast sandwich that I did not need. I had two people come up to me and give me hugs to let me know they were so sorry to hear that I was....moving. Hmm...one of them said they were sorry to hear I was leaving my husband. And all I could say is--"yeah--it's really to bad."

So--just to let you know I am NOT moving. I am NOT leaving my husband.
I try to keep certain things to myself but maybe this rumor was brought up after a few "big ears" heard me say that I would probably move AFTER Conner graduates. I would like to be closer to where ever my kids settle because they really are my life and life is to short to live here when I could be with them. Divorcing my husband was never on the table. Matter of fact--I hope he comes with me IF this plan becomes a reality. If he stays--well we have been a trucker couple for a long time and we will make it work. Keep in mind this is EIGHT YEARS away. It's just discussion. A few years ago we wanted to build a lighthouse for the hell of it--and--it was just discussed and of course tossed. We talk, we dream...isn't that what we are suppose to do?

Frankly--I am super sick of hearing my husband and I are divorcing. We are going to hit that 25 year mark soon and well--we have lasted a lot longer than some of you. My thought is--work on you. If I ever divorce my husband I will run an ad in the local newspaper.

So now the greenhouse--yes--I am beginning the steps of retirement. I have been blogging about it. I don't know when it will be but I AM looking at retiring. I personally haven't been to impressed with the community since Old Settlers weekend and that just helped put the plan in motion for me.
As I begin this process I am going to school to begin my retirement career. It is taking me forever (my time management skills SUCK right now)..but IF we move (EIGHT YEARS FROM NOW) this is a career I can take with me and keep in mind my husband can truck from anywhere.

NOW--for the other issue that happened yesterday...I hate this weekend with a passion. The Fake Family Pheasant Hunt is upon us and there is ALWAYS some sneaky shit being pulled by "family" members--this year it was Conner getting approached about the "chili feed" mainly because I wasn't around.
My husband might be in denial or maybe he has forgiven the family for what they have done. But I have not. I will never forget what the family did to my husband--what they did to my family--and what they did to me. My kids suffer mentally from their past experiences with the family. The rumors launched by family members while being backed by the "queen" is nothing short of heartbreaking. It was meant to hurt me--but it hurt EVERYONE around me including our children.

You aren't family...you never will be. And to approach my child is just another example of the sneaky crap you pull every year. How do I know this wasn't sincere? Well look at your Facebook page--there is RARELY a mention of our children. Do you call? No. Check in with the two adult children living in Rapid City? Hell no--but when the Fake Family Pheasant Hunt comes--well we need to make you look good. It isn't happening. It's never happening.

So I hope this clears up a few things--or begins a few more rumors-- who knows with this town. But--I am here to tell you that after this statement--there will be no more clarifications. Believe what you want, believe what you need but know that I have to much on my plate to clarify everything that is said about me or my family. We are seriously boring people who watch a lot of television so I guess Thank you? for making us crazier than we really are.

Until next time...Kristi