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Adventures In Deadwood, South Dakota

A FEW THINGS-- Before I get started I would like to thank my wonderful friends who are guiding me along this journey--I love good constructive conversations as they guide me to find my niche so to speak. I have enjoyed being around people who encourage. I grew up in Deadwood, SD. 906 Main St to be exact (Upper Main St). My father created "The Original Deadwood Tour" in 1979. I grew up hearing stories of Wild Bill Hickok and Calamity Jane. Gold, Guns, Girls and Glory. At the time I was to young to understand about brothels-- but my father had a shirt (actually he STILL has this shirt) that says "I was there when Pam's Purple Door closed down." (1980?) Winter time was not exciting for me growing up in Deadwood--but when summer rolled around--it was time to work. Deadwood was a tourist town--I spent the summers--either selling tickets for my dad tour bus, making sub sandwiches at Big E's Sub Shop, selling Black Hills Gold jewelry at the Gold Nugget, or serv...

What Is Wrong With Us?

A FEW THINGS--- I have decided to publish on Mondays instead of Wednesdays from here on out. It will fit my schedule better and Mondays are such downers-- hopefully you will read this and feel better about your week. This is my 13th blog since starting a public blog. My numbers were highest when I was "spilling the tea"about my dysfunctional life vs trying to talk about life changes or inspiration or travel. I understand this--I love the drama of "The Real Housewives" I tune in every week to see the shade, the gossip, and ALL the drama. I also had a session with my blogging mentor and he said I should have waited and released all of these blogs at the same time vs weekly as it helps with promotion. Of course I find this out AFTER I released them--in my mind I just wanted to continue on with what I was doing on Facebook not knowing there was a strategy to making a successful public blog. Life is all about the learning--and starting this journey has definitely bee...

When You Want To Give Up

A FEW THINGS. When I began this blog I did not realize what a challenge it would be. When I was on Facebook it was shared among friends--now that it is a public blog I am always challenged to watch what I say. I can't just talk about a person or persons on a public domain. Legally and Ethically it isn't in my best interest. So I have struggled on how I want to come across when writing my blog. I have had messages come to me that I have given the "Disney" version of what has truly happened in my life and they were not happy about it and they are absolutely right. I feel limited in a public blog verses my private Facebook page. I have avoided writing this blog because I was not sure what I wanted this blog to be. A travel blog, an inspirational blog, a venting blog, maybe a gossip blog. What is my direction here? Do I even want to continue? I realized maybe I was going down the negative tunnel when my Facebook post the other night was this: Needed a breather so I we...